Wednesday, October 17, 2007

A Casual Relationship

A Casual Relationship

I just finished watching Amercian Pie 2 and the rel of the guy and that gal Vik ... gave me thoughts

is a casual relationship possible with our kind of mindset
our here refering to the indian mindset ... admit it guys much as we may pretend to me westernised ...even i do ... somewhere in our hearts we are the conventional Indians who ahve the view that a casual fling is immoral and unjustified ...

I dont know ... really dont know
am i ready to accept a casual relationship

accept it then live it and then move on with it
much as I would like it ... it sounds tough ...

But movies like American Pie give me a hope that all this is normal and the way we live is a screwed version of life ... onw idout sex and drink ....

Th tussle is on .... and I want the self-ratification for everything casual ... coz life is there for enjoyment

5 comments:

  1. "is a casual relationship possible with our kind of mindset
    our here refering to the indian mindset ... admit it guys much as we may pretend to me westernised ...even i do ... somewhere in our hearts we are the conventional Indians who ahve the view that a casual fling is immoral and unjustified ..."

    Couldn't agree with you more on that..there are so many people who can't muster up enough courage to admit to this!Very true..

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  2. @revti
    i wish i culd actually defy this .. and have a casual fling ..;)
    u interested ????
    ;)

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  3. i think that irrespective of the geographical location any casual fling causes emotional damage. so now the ques is are u ready to take that. which some people are in india too! agreed 'indian mindset' plays a role but theres a bigger role of our lifestyle now a days especially one that at some or the other point confers lonelinees on us..... the biggest instigator of anything casual.

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  4. i think a casual fling is more about temporary masti and timepass.. those in it are aware of the fact, but everyone would want to settle down sometime with the 'one'... also as 'nothing' said, flings cause emotional damage and since they are more in number than serious relationships, it means more emotional damage.. unless one becomes totally carnal about it..
    about Indians i think we are more 'sentimental' types on a average than the west.. with time this is decreasing, so flings might gain popularity here..

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