Logic

Is logic completely logical ?

Isnt being logical so illogical ?

I was told ... everything does'nt have a logic.

I said NO.

I still struggle to say YES. Waiting for the day .. waiting till I understand .. waiting till I learn .. or waiting till I logically decide that logic is not always logical.

And I thought you were mine ....

Definition of misconception ..

And I thought you were always mine.


The little hope, the little smile, the little laugh, the little tear, the little love, the little hatred, the little sun, the little moon .........

And I thought I had all.

A Casual Relationship

A Casual Relationship

I just finished watching Amercian Pie 2 and the rel of the guy and that gal Vik ... gave me thoughts

is a casual relationship possible with our kind of mindset
our here refering to the indian mindset ... admit it guys much as we may pretend to me westernised ...even i do ... somewhere in our hearts we are the conventional Indians who ahve the view that a casual fling is immoral and unjustified ...

I dont know ... really dont know
am i ready to accept a casual relationship

accept it then live it and then move on with it
much as I would like it ... it sounds tough ...

But movies like American Pie give me a hope that all this is normal and the way we live is a screwed version of life ... onw idout sex and drink ....

Th tussle is on .... and I want the self-ratification for everything casual ... coz life is there for enjoyment

Raising a child ....

raising a child ... building a house ... nursing a dream ... all to make it a reality ...

And you have a nightmare ...
The child falls .. the house collapses ... the dream is shattered ... slowly yet steadily .....knocking the wind out of you

The worst of all is that you do not have enouh strength to stop the falling ... its there its inadverent ..

What does one think ... try and stop it ... or look ahead in life ....
is there anything to stop or ois it already shattered ...

does looking ahead mean giving up .. or a clever compromise

i see the doom as a give up ... the doom which will create havoc and will destroy the house .......................

Questions about love ...

What is love ....????????

Is it lust ? Or more appropriately ... is it just lust?

Can there be love without lust and lust without love ?

Does love mean a long term committment ? Or just a friend who you think is more than a friend?

Is the feeling of being in love more important than the feeling of love itself ?

Can love be manufactured ... can it be created ...
If not then how do arrange marriages survive ?

And if yes ... why cant we love the person we like ... the person we would like to love ...?

Can love overcome ego ... is it good to actually overcome ego ... the feeling of self ...
Does it mean .. the dissolution of the self and the thoughts
or on the other hand
does it mean a union of 2 thoughts

is it UNDERSTANDING or COMPROMISE?

what happens when expectations are not fulfilled ... who is at fault ... the one having higher expectations or the one not fulfilling them

are girls really more romantic in a relationship ... and are guys really more physical ?

why do u need to love ... for sex ... or for company ....
company is the obvious answer ... yes but is that really true ...
then why love 1 person for a lifetime ....
chage partners .. get diff company and diff sex ..

how does marriage change things ??.... why does the roseiness of a relationship reduce after gettin married ...

is love a committment or a bond ?
is love shackles of confinement or a belt of security ?
is loving less imporatant than being loved ?
is love transitional or permanent ?

does love mean keeping the other person happy or keeping youseld happy ...THE ANSWER IS NOT BOTH

Can you forget a love ?
Can you grow out of your love ?
And if you forget or grow out ... then was it love or lust ?


these are some questions you must have answers for if u think you are in love ...
and if u feel u r falling in love ... then try and ans them urself ...
Best of luck ... cheers
also in case u get some wisdom please do share it with me ...